No, really, you never know...In this case 'what inspires or motivates' an individual to take an action or the next step, sometimes backwards, sometimes forward. This was a forward step on my part as a result of what I considered to be selfish, juvenile and single minded actions and comments from some locals we are acquainted with belonging to what I describe as a small 'clic' of 'like' individuals belonging to a larger group but not really a part of it. There are no names...wouldn't make any difference...don't know them any way...but very familiar with their actions and the rhetoric of a self elected mouthpiece. This isn't the first time I've encountered this situation of a small faction of misinformed or uninformed individuals that think their way is the only way and the best way...nor will it be the last, they never seem to go away and always seem to be around when large groups of people get together. In this case the documented and verbal criticism from several of the 'clic' was directed towards my wife and her dedication and commitment to the Quilts of Valor. I think Julia Roberts said it best in
Pretty Woman..."Big Mistake. Big. Huge..." The following is my written response:
First I must point out to those who have not read, heard
or been made aware of the Quilts of Valor Mission Statement the following…that
can easily be located on the Home Page of qovf.org. It is to say the least,
simple and should leave no doubt as to its meaning or the mission of QOVF.
“The mission of the Quits of Valor Foundation is to cover
all combat service members and veterans touched by war with comforting and
healing Quilts of Valor.”
Secondly rest assured that the commitment, sincerity,
conviction and dedication to honor and abide by that Mission Statement directs
the actions and commitment of Elaine Page, my wife and lifelong partner, in
recognizing the need of ‘all’ veterans that have served this great country each
and every day. Past and present on home or foreign soil, hospitalized or having
residence, visible wounds, wounds suffered that have no visible characteristics
or no wounds period are not separations of qualification that Elaine nor Quilts
of Valor recognize. The presentation of a Quilt of Valor is stipulated very
specifically as “…touched by war…” That brush with reality does not always
manifest visually or consciously. With the obvious exception of a few it is my
experience that neither do our guild members associate with what I consider to
be single minded and juvenile. It is this guild characteristic of unselfish,
dedicated and sincere respect for quilting and quilting for QOV and the
gratitude of those serving and those that have served that guided me to
membership. Please rest assured I will die protecting any individual’s right to
have and express their point of view and the freedoms that guarantee that
right. Also be assured with that I be allowed to express mine and disagree with
theirs.
With the exception of my father, a decorated WWII combat
veteran and my wife, it would be 22 years before any individual would thank me
for my service in Vietnam…I vowed long ago, and long before it was popular that
I would not, I would Never Forget, and always make the extra effort to
recognize another’s service. QOV has just been another avenue that allows me to
do that. One that I am so thankful for and one I doubt could be truly
understood by others, other than Elaine. Elaine’s dedication and commitment is even
more deeply rooted. It was Elaine that would be awakened in the middle of the
night lying next to the man she married sitting up in bed staring at her and
not knowing whether he recognized her, where he was, who he was with or
possibly why he was. It would be a long time before I would know this for I to
this day have no recollection of these incidents and I’m not certain I can even
relate to the courage she needed to experience them. It does explain some of
the patience, care, love and understanding I received that baffled my mind as
to why would anyone put up with me for this long. Let me assure you, it is this
patience, care, love and understanding that goes into every quilt she sews on,
longarms, cuts fabric for, pieces and presents. One can also rest assured if
there are individuals that desire to see their quilt sent anywhere in the world
for presentation…she will see to it that their desires are met and they receive
the information necessary to carry that desire out. But I beyond any reasonable
doubt beyond any and all expectations and beliefs know that those “…touched by
war…” can be found everywhere…and whether it be through Quilts of Valor, Quilts
of Honor East, or a quilters guild I will make every effort to fulfill the need
to recognize, not only those who pass through a hospital, but have passed
through the anguish of war, sacrificed to serve this country and made the
commitment to protect and honor this Republic and the documents that are the
foundation of our freedom. For those that don’t believe doing that locally, as
often as is humanly possible, is in the best interest of QOV, the guild,
our community and our appreciation, well you haven’t been to a presentation.
With the sincerest respect,
Les Page
My response to these actions, the motivation and inspiration to become more active in the Quilts of Valor Foundation, more than just longarming quilts, directed me to investigate other avenues and discover what more could I do to support the 'mission' of QOVF and Elaine's commitment to deliver an accurate and informed message as QOVF deserves. It would lead to applying for a Regional Coordinator's position with the Quilts of Valor Foundation...My application for Region 9 Virginia, was accepted and I have assumed the duties associated with that position...to say I'm honored to become a more active and involved member of this dedicated and committed group of individuals would be at best an understatement. In the above letter I made the statement "...I will make every effort..." My application being accepted is another avenue to fulfill that...be assured as the Region 9 Virginia Regional Coordinator I will make every effort to promote, assist, point in the right direction and aid any and all individuals in there quest to support the mission, procedures and policies as directed by the Quilts of Valor Foundation.
Les Page
QOVF Region 9 VA...Regional Coordinator
and I will NEVER FORGET